RELATIONSHIP COMPATIBILITY

       Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

According to Wiktionary, compatibility is the state in which two or more things are able to exist or work together in combination without problems or conflict.

A while ago, I made a video on "The List". If you have not seen it, click the link, watch it and make sure you come back to continue reading. 

I was talking to a friend after the video and she explained to me that she had met men who possessed the qualities she had on her list but the relationships didn't work out. I couldn't understand then but recently, it became clear to me. 

How can you meet someone who possesses  all the qualities you have written on your list but you are not compatible?

Can a person who does not have everything on your list be compatible with you?

Yes, it can happen. 

There is a clear difference between wants and needs. 

Have you ever met someone randomly and when discussing, there was a connection with the person even though you do not know him or her before while someone with whom you grew up together doesn't connect with you because of individual differences? 

When it comes to being  in romantic relationships with people, this may sound selfish but your feelings must come first. This does not mean that you are ignoring the feelings of the other person.

The person maybe what you think you want, but not what you need. You are doing a disservice to yourself and the other person by keeping them around because the person may not be fully aware of what they need also. With time the person will fully understand. 

How to determine your compatibility with someone is very simple; there shouldn't be problems or conflicts all the time. 

Let go and let GOD, stop forcing things to happen, they should naturally flow without troubling your spirit or raising your blood pressure. 

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